Finding Friends in the Fall

This is going to be a short post for you all

Personally, I have been reconnecting with old friends who are doing something with their lives

I’m also talking more with the people in my building deciding if I want to invite them out to dinner or just keep pleasant banter on the premises

Summer is officially over and as we go into the cooler weather, a lot of people are much calmer and willing to make new friends

I was just at the pool observing families and people and it’s really easy to strike up conversation

If you live in a house going to the gym, hotels, social restaurants, lounges, open air clubs, and anywhere non -ghetto is where people want to socialize

Instagram is where you can find these spots and simply driving around

You should know of all the new spots opening and all of the old spots people still like to go to

The hottest girls love top brunch spots, sushi spots, and hotels

Starting with certain hotels you can ask where people like to go out

Tell them straight up you don’t want to meet normies or regular folks

They will know exactly what you mean

A lot of them will know certain industry people or events happening nearby either that week or the next

Even in the biggest cities it’s easy to find the best spots

If you are somewhere like Scottsdale it’s pretty much all in the same area

If you are in Los Angeles it’s all over but more focus on West Hollywood or Poppy

If you are in Dallas it’s mostly in Uptown but some also in Deep Ellum

If you are in San Diego it’s going to be Gaslamp District

These are some comprehensive city guides I put together over last year

If you are looking for more relaxed ways of meeting people then Farmers Markets that you can chat with people and invite them to nature walks

If you have a SO then meeting people other couples at Pumpkin Patches also is a viable path

Now these places can be full of normies but still keep an open mind

You can filter through a lot of them by talking with as many people as possible

Then the right ones you can drive through their network

The same fundamentals apply for both meeting women and men

Introductions are your best friends

Talk to one person and say “ Introduce me to your friends”

If you are out with anyone, you can then introduce your friends to them

My next post is going to be about Cuffing Season and how this is the easiest time of the year to find a girl friend

Until then stay tooned

Best,

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