Visit Your SO's Family
I went to see my Fiancés grandparents on Friday for her Grandmas birthday
We all have a special bond because I had to stay at their house for almost a week once
Not a lot of people visit them and my grandparents died when I was young
We have great chemistry and they have become people I really look up to
Him and I always watch this show called the Five at 4 about 4 Republicans and 1 Democrat at a table and it’s usually hilarious
That night we took her to an Olive Garden, which I had never been to before
I thought the huge salad was just for me and the infinite soup made no sense
How the fuck does this place make money ?
We joked with the waiter a lot
We had a bottle of red wine
We got a dessert to go
The cheque is on this little screen and my fiancé was whipping it around to me and I was like what are we looking at here ?
Then I realized on this is the bill
Was like $100 to feed 4 people
I had lunch the day before with no booze for the same price for two
I even had leftovers for later
Already making people happy and getting a new experience myself even in the most asinine way to many people
Then we went back to their house to play a card game called Boo Ray
It’s a pretty fun game but can be a little long
My fiancé ended up winning and her grandpa came in last
He always wins because he has been playing for 30 years
Drinks started flowing and we put on “The Parent Trap” a movie where Lindsay Lohan finds out she has a twin
Before I know it we are all huddled together in the kitchen like a football huddle
God knows what we were saying probably how much fun we had and how we loved each other
Grandpa and I drank some chocolate caramel whiskey
My Fiancé and I went to bed and she got frisky
I slept like 4 hours and was up just thinking about my life for like 4 hours
Haven’t been that hungover in a very long time but it was a decent hangover
My adrenaline kicked in liek it used to when I was in college and when I went out a lot
Remember new experiences + lack of sleep +Overabundance + a lot in common = a huge adrenaline rush usually
You don’t have to go to the club every week to get this
I aim to get this feeling once a month because I have become addicted to the feeling
There isn’t anything like it IMO and I’ve tried every drug you can think of been to Aspen, Cape Town, and most “Top” spots
I’ve gotten the same feeling flying down the slopes but had to quit snowboarding for dislocating my shoulders too often
To me it’s crazy that I can replicate that kind of feelign hanging out with grandparents at Olive Garden
I feel like I’ve discovered some sort of cheat code that I wanted to share with you all
This year has been overwhelming with new experiences - good and bad
It’s been tough for everyone I know but the people charging ahead and taking action are going to be thriving in 2025
I can’t believe how wild this year has been
If it hasn’t for you for whatever reason - it’s coming
No one can escape a big wave
Whatever you do don’t give up
Don’t get jaded
Keep exercising, meeting new people, meeting up with old friends, and travelling when you can
There is still a lot of good in this world
You just have to look closely
Sometimes it is right around the corner
I hope everyone has a great week,
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