The Day before Thanksgiving

My favorite night to go out

The day before Thanksgiving is the biggest day of fall that people go out

Everyone from the fickle 500 to college kids who are back in town from the holidays appear at their usual hangout spots

It’s a great time to meet people as people are way more approachable. This topic deemed its own newsletter.

The local spots that people usually don’t go to like the neighborhood bars will be packed with people who have money and connections

The types of venues to go to can slightly change. I highly recommend asking others what they are doing and if you have friends in the industry, they may not even be aware of these places

Neighborhood pubs are where people like to go as well as open air bars. The usual normie spots can turn into mass college spots. If you still live in your hometown ask an old acquaintance. If you have moved to somewhere like Vegas, the day before Tgiving is not as important.

Many cities its actually a very fun night to go out. Great time to meet girls for the holidays as they are actively looking for guys for once. Usually they are all about raising their status either in a bottle service table or at some private party

This time they are raising their status in different ways

They want to find a guy to bring to their company functions or holiday parties that people don’t really know about.

This gives them an out if things fall through which is highly likely

Be the fun guy who doesn’t judge and pulling girls on that night becomes easier

Remember to build commonalities then future project to other events even if you two will never go

Bring these new people into your world and show them the places you like to go

This way you can move people to venues that you have social proof at and gives your newfound friends something else to do

Keep in mind that it is Thanksgiving the next day so many people return home to their parents that night.

If they are post grad then they will be more than likely to come to your place for an “afterparty” which is just plausible deniability for them to hook up with you

I wanted to write this article well in advanced so that you guys can go look on Ig at places that may fit the description of a local neighborhood bar

If you can’t find them then drive around and scope them out. When they open you can call and ask if they get pretty busy on Thanksgiving Eve as you would like to bring friends by

Always remember the smaller the venue the easier it is to meet people

If it’s huge, approaching tables or people immediately have their guards up. Less so on this night though and is excellent to practice cold approaching

Will keep you in an outgoing mood for your Thanksgiving the next day

Don’t expect to bring a girl to your Tgivng lunch or dinner

However, girls are much more likely to sleep with you than any other night simply because you are not known to them.

As well as being a potential future date to an event they are attending.

Girls know if they sleep with you fast in this situation you are more likely to stay around

This helps you both as you now should have a litany of events lined up including NYE parties

I will be writing about NYE as we get closer as its a great time to throw a party solidifying your status to your newfound friends as well as any you have met through Ig or going out

Use Thanksgiving Eve as a jumping off point

Go in with an open mind and expect nothing

Be gregarious and outgoing

Be the guy who solves problems and logistics

Cuffing season is very real and even though I said in the beginning of the article to not expect much with girls especially if they are just visiting

However, most couples meet during this period

If you are looking for a girlfriend this is an excellent time to find girls looking for a boyfriend or at least someone to have fun with over the holidays

If you are already sleeping with girls you can bring them out

Also you can tell new girls once you have slept with them that you are dating other women

This will scare off some but through the power of preselection many girls will wonder why you have options and will want to pursue you

If you are a beginner or intermediate to advanced with game then this is an excellent time to take your game to the next level

This topic isn’t covered enough so if you have any questions feel free to DM me on X

Since it happens only once a year I only have about 11 different experiences with the day

I’ve used Tgiving Eve to jumpstart my industry connections as well as used it to meet ex locals who still visit my hometown

It is by far my favorite night to go out as I already have the spots in mind, now is the best time to get ahead and find your local neighborhood spots you may never even go to