Sunday Funday
This past Sunday I went out and since it was President’s Day the next day a decent amount of people went out
I hit up my usual same spots after getting dinner at my local Mexican spot
Then I headed out to the nightlife strip everyone goes to
Usually Sundays are dead here but not this weekend
I hung out with the Dj, the Owners, and tons of girls
I brought my GF and then we just grab more girls at each venue
Walked to the owners place with him and his girl
He gave me party favors for free
I had guys buying the girls drinks
It was just so easy to get into a flow state and provide a ton of value for everyone around me
Then they reciprocated
I got some 1-1 time with the owner as he was upstairs in the closed off area and I just went up to see him
He’s a good guy and was with his gf
We saw a ton if industry people we know and other people who go out quite a bit
Got free drink tickets for that Wednesday which I didn’t need and it was at another spot anyway that I just go to play ping pong at
I had a ton of fun
I went out the night before that and it was god awful
To the same spots but it was a Saturday and the day after Valentines Day
Usually just tons of dudes
I have been liking Sunday and Wednesday as going out nights if I decide to go
Way easier to talk to people
Way cheaper
Way easier to build those long term connections so when you go out on a busy night people take the time to say hi
Saturday about 15 people came up to me but it just wasn’t the same feel
I only stayed out from 9-12AM because I was just getting so bored
Fridays and Saturdays are usually pretty bad
If you have to pick one, pick Saturday unless you have a special event you have been invited to for Friday
The best nights are Sunday, Wednesday, and Thursday and they have been for years
Your city may be slightly different but the industry guys party in the week because they work on the weekend
Very difficult to connect with them when it’s so busy
Get out on a Wedneaday and Thursday for sure
Either day will be good in your city as it’s ladies night/industry nights
Lots of people go to dinner before at sister/party restaurants and hit up lounges and speakeasies after
The hottest girls will be at these spots without a doubt
It’s just the new in thing as clubs fall by the wayside
Find those spots in your city
If they don’t exist you need to move ASAP
Top cities right now are:
Dallas
Los Angeles
Miami
San Diego
Las Vegas
Houston
NYC
Scottsdale
Remember living in the middle of no where will get you 0 results with this kind of lifestyle
It simply does not exist
I hope everyone has a great weekend,
-BTSC
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