Social Proof and Preselection
In this newsletter I am going to define what social proof and pre selection is and give you examples of each that will allow you to have a powerful social circle.
I’m going to show you why social proof and pre selection is massively important, if not the most important aspects to social circle building to create leverage.
Definition of Social Proof: The method in which you can gain STATUS within an environment by people in the area knowing you and liking you. In other words, contextual popularity where people are giving you positive attention
Social Proof is important for a few reasons:
It shows that people know you in the environment so it creates an aura of importance
If the staff at the venue greets you when you arrive people will want to know who you are and be curious about you
When women see that you are popular in a given environment they indirectly get attracted and trust is easier to establish
If most people show you positive attention then you must be one of the “cool kids” (think high school or college) versus being a loner or an outsider
How to Build Social Proof Wherever You Go Out