Social Circle Game
I don’t agree with everything 100% but its a damn good detailed guide on Social Circle Game. This could be one of the better guides I have seen written that’s not 30+ pages
FIRST OF ALL...
This is a thing that you're in for life. It's not a sprint, it definitely takes the most benefit if you play it for the long term. It also takes a long time, so if you're expecting results in a couple months, sorry but you won't see any.
THE PROS OF SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME
On the long term, you'll build yourself a social circle and social proof that will automatically make it fun and way easier for you to hook up with girls, if you're busy you still have all those leads coming in. If you combine your cold approach skills with social circle game, you'll see massive results and you'll see how much value those cold approach experiences will bring you in social situations.
APPLICATIONS OF SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME
Everything you do is social, so you can use that and leverage it. Once you're the "cool popular guy" that can bring girls, it'll boost your career, you'll meet more people that will introduce you to more jobs and clients. Same night lays will be easier with all the social proof. Your life will be more colorful and happier, with women on a regular basis and friends that can help you with different things. Your social skills will get better than if you just practiced cold approach, especially in ways that cold approach doesn't tackle. The best thing is, if you have a well-rounded social circle, it'll have great impact on long term relationships. A girl that you pull because you have good game and then sees that your life is fucking boring will lose attraction. But, if she sees that this amazing guy that pulled her out of a club has all this friends and this amazing lifestyle out of the club, she'll fall in love with you immediately, and in the long term she'll want to spend time with you and be loyal to you, because of all the social value you can give to her.
HOW SOCIAL CIRCLE WORKS
Before we learn how you can build a social circle, I want you to understand how it works, which roles are in the social circle and how you need to interact and fill those roles, because the way the roles are filled is crucial.
Inner circle (~5-10 people):
It's your best friends (guys/girls), they're part of your life, you take care of them and they take care of you. Your girlfriend can be part of this circle, but it's like your hand: your girlfriend is your thumb and your friends are the other fingers - be the guy that owns it in life and still shares it with her, don't be like "I'm so sad, I suck at life", keep that to your best friends. She’s the only person in your inner circle that you can fuck, you can’t fuck no one else in this circle. The people in your inner circle have to be social as well. They're going to hang out with you all the time, if they don't like going out to loud venues and talking to people for example, they're going to fuck your social life. The inner circle has to be a brotherhood - you have the same mindset, goals, ambitions, etc. That has a "social gravity", people notice the energy between you and wants to be part of it.
Outer circle (~10-50 people):
It's the friends of your best friends or your more "deviate friends". They're still part of your life, you're still very good friends with them, but they aren't as close as your best friends, they don't have the same mindset as you.
Extended circle (~50+ people):
It's everyone you know on campus, gym, etc. All the friends of your friends and all the people that you know in the places that you go. You're friends with them, but you wouldn't invite them to your wedding or something.
The bubbles:
This is a social circle that doesn't have any contact with the other circles, but you hang out with them. For example, if you work out with some guys, you hang out with them but they don't know the rest of your friends.
ROLES
In those social circles, you have different roles. Like I said, these roles must be filled correctly. Some roles can overlap, for example the first lady can be the organizer too.
The alphas. You need the alphas. The guys that are cool with themselves, charismatic, talk to people, go out frequently, etc. Usually, they overlap with the guys in the inner circle and can go to the outer circle. Just keep in mind the more you have around you, the better it is, the better quality your social circle will have.
The chodes. You need the chodes. You have to respect and accept them. Often, they aren't good with girls, but they're crushing it in something else. As long as they bring good energy and fun to the parties, you should have as much of them as well. They can help you with some problems in your life, like finances, school, etc.
The first lady. They can overlap or be two different people. The organizer is someone who organizes things (parties, meetings for coffee, etc). If you don't want to do it or don't have the time to do it, get someone to do it for you. The first lady is the anchor of the females in the social circle. She has to be, at least, a 7 (if she's not hot, she'll not attract other hot girls). She has to be a girl that really likes to socialize with guys AND girls (very critical). Needs to be a very open and positive girl, which makes her really rare. So, when you find a girl like this, do NOT fuck her. This girl is like a diamond, you have to treat her like it. Once she's attracted (socially hooked) to you (you’re attractive and getting laid, so she'll try to fuck you), you got to friendzone her. Don't be like "Fuck you bitch, I'll not fuck you", be like "You're awesome, you're like my little sister!". So, she's hot and attracted to you, but you honestly friendzone her, don't be like "Oh, one day, maybe I could do this..." – no, put in your head that this girl doesn't have a pussy.
The organizer. Someone who organizes things (parties, meetings for coffee, etc). If you don't want to do it or don't have the time to do it, get someone to do it for you.
The groupies. They talk with their friends about your parties and bring them (tell them to invite all their friends if necessary, say "bring your hot friends"). Scan for hotness, coolness or if they’ve hot friends. They like you because you're a cool guy and they like to party. They're in the extended circle, you don't have a real bond with them, but they want to be part of it. They’re the perfect girl to fuck - hot, doesn't know your inner circle, so if you leave them and they talk shit about you, it won't affect your life.
Girls from outer circle. This depends. You need to look at the girls and see "What's the relationship that she has with my friends?" and "How much risk do I want to take with her?". If they talk with the people that talk shit about you and with your friends, you'll have fights in your social circle, and that's really bad. If you decide to lay girls on the outer circle, try to keep it on a low key and don't let too many people know about it.
The orbiters. They're "male groupies". They think you're cool, they want to hang out with you. Don't invite too much of them to your house parties and shit. Groupies, invite as much as humanly possible, stack that shit in your house. Orbitals, invite like 2 or 3 of them.
The fatties. Treat them super well and be super nice, they'll love you for that. Many of them have hot friends, so they're going to talk about you and tell them to meet you. They keep pushing you and keep winging you, they're your income of pussy.
The couples. You can have them in parties, but you don't want too many of them. When you have too many couples, the party dies down. If you have them in your parties or meetings, try to separate them, like sit them in different parts of the table. In a house party, make sure the percentage of couples is really low.
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