Sexualize your world and curate it to your reality
(You need to change your outlook on the world)
"It is men who create the barriers. If men would embrace their own sexuality then women WILL jump you.”
- Pook
A lot of men today are scared of embracing their own sexuality, they hide it, they act like they are not men. They are ashamed of thinking „ooh look at that ass, damn... she is really hot“. They try to learn techniques and lines, not realizing that it is not what you say, but how you say it.
Inner game, your mind. The attitudes, values and emotions you carry with you in every moment of your life. Fixing those is the only way to get girls. Without proper inner game you’ll never get the results you want.
Sexualizing yourself comes down to a two things.
1. Sexualizing the world
2. Sexualizing yourself
What does this even mean? Why is this important?
It is simple really. There is no "game" you put on when you see a hot woman. You are not turning on/off button for gaming girls. You are always "on". Game the bus driver, game the granny who works in a bakery, and give a compliment to the cashier. There is no distinction between who you are as a person and your "seductive personality". Realize this. Sexualizing your world will help your game tremendously. Everything will be more natural, you’ll tease, flirt, escalate much easier. Not to mention you will feel more confident in yourself also.
Just think of italian men who are very sexually open and embrace their sexuality, there is a reason women love them.
Here is what I want you to pay attention to from now on:
How you dress.
∙ There is no excuse unless you don't have money to buy clothes. Even if you don't have money to buy clothes you can work out so anything looks good on you, and work a part-time job to earn income.
Grooming
∙ Good haircut, cut your nails, brush your teeth, groom yourself, have a skincare routine, please do not wear a unibrow, shower every day.
Workout
∙ Work out and focus on Five Aesthetic muscles: upper chest, traps, shoulders, chest, and lats. I got a full workout routine guide in the bonus section. Don't forget the legs, please.
∙ Diet, do not eat shit that will make you look like Homer Simpson.
Be sexual
∙ Everytime a hot girl passes i want you to look at her. I don't care what you think, also when a hot girl passes on the street i want you to turn your head like you are looking for something behind you and briefly notice her ass. Not like an asshole, but as a gentleman. Like James Bond would. Why? Because you are sexualizing your world now. Realize that sex is everywhere, on magazine covers, in movies, on social media. Sex is everywhere, and i want you to start being okay with being sexually open. Become one with sexuality. When you look her in the eyes you want her to start blushing because of the pure sexuality that comes out of your eyes. Have that look that screams adventure, fun, and sex. You get a boner with a girl it's not something to hide or to be ashamed of. You are a sexual being. Women love sex.
Socialize
∙ Start talking to people. Start being interested in people. Talk to everyone that ends up beside you. A true „alpha male“ loves getting to know new people, and hearing their stories. People are amazing. Practice social skills, and practice storytelling, teasing, flirting.
∙ While practicing being social, implement the characteristics you want to have. A good thing to start doing is being a leader, if a group is indecisive be the one who is decisive. The rule in life should be to never be indecisive, asses the options, and do whatever comes to mind.
Mindset
∙ When you enter a room, keep your chin up, stand upright, greet people with a smile, and then sit down. The mindset behind this is important, you are confident in yourself and you own the situation.
∙ Am i having fun? No? What should i do to have fun? Enjoy life, don't be so serious all the time. Humor is important.
∙ Stop watching porn entirely. Jerk off only when you have to.
Approach
∙ Start approaching to women you like. Feel that sexual energy of a beautiful women. That anxiety, your hands sweating, your heart beating fast, those are all signs that you should apporach her.
∙ Approach directly, tell her you think she is beautiful and you wanted to approach her.
∙ Feel the feminine energy, the beauty of the woman in front of you. Don’t think about what you should say, or if you look good, just focus on her.
∙ A HUGE DISCLAIMER: This does not mean you are needy, you WANT her but you do not NEED her. Your sexual energy does not mean you are slobbering all over her.
Think about this, ask yourself, how would my sex life change if i only embraced sexuality? From my experience a lot of men would benefit from it. This post was taken directly from my upcoming book “Playboy Secrets” which i am currently writing.
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