Mike Tyson vs Jake Paul Night Out

This was a Friday night and there also was a full moon

Friday nights are usually the worst nights of the week to go out but since this was a special occasion I decided to step out

My building had a happy hour next door at this restaurant

I invited a a good connector friend of mine and went with my Fiancé

We had a couple drinks and charcuterie as well as got to meet some people in the building

What I look for in nights to go out is how early certain events are going to be

It’s keeps a steady flow and if it gets boring you can leave early which was my plan

But I forgot the fight said 7 and the Prelims didn’t even start until 8

So I went from 5:45PM to 12:45PM

Longer than I wanted but the night was interesting

I hadn’t been out in 6 months or so

We went to only 1 venue and then after the fight for a bit another one right next door both owned by the same group

The place we were at for the fight all night didn’t have tables

I knew the bartender and he gave me 2 free shots and a comped tab for the first round

This is why you need to bring cash to always be tipping

Regulars saw this and were wondering how I could just get free drinks

Well I got there early - went right up to him and started shooting the shit

Then later when he was working he would serve me fast

But I had no intentions behind this

Just to make him feel good and having a chat

Later we said hi to the owner and he gave 4 tequila shots out so I could pass some out

We stayed in the same spot all night and my connector friend did a loop around the place collecting people

Ended up getting some free party favors too

My fiancé was talking to every girl and usually the girls are pretty nice

One gave me a fake name however and told my fiancé that

And they were stand offish to all the guys in general that night

I blame it being a Friday and a full moon

However, the key ingredient was bringing my fiancé

Anytime you bring just one girl you can meet tons

Obviously I don’t need to meet any and have again 0 ulterior motive

I went out with low expectations and ended up having a good time

Any time you guys see a special event start inviting people asap especially women

There is no reason to not go with one girl as it makes everyone happier as she can attract more girls for the guys

Once you meet all the right people

You don’t have to go out regularly

In fact I would say it is a massive waste of time

After 3-6 months you shouldn’t need to go it every week as you should have a pipeline of people you know

Then you can start doing monthly outings or ever quarterly

I’ve tried it all out and only in the beginning is twice a week worth it

I didn’t lose that much sleep and I just wanted to have a guys night out

Been around too many women lately and I felt a huge reset afterwards

Wasn’t hungover as I took my hydration drink Hydr8

Drank water there and a shitload when I got back

Slept 7 hours with the help of Presleep

Had a massage the next day and got a nice walk in

It wasn’t a very degenerative night

People were nice and not creepy

The only people playing Status games were a gaggle of Asian guys and some other group of guys at the venue next door

Tables are becoming out and personal status is becoming in

You just have to get to know the right people over time and find your group there

Then they give you free drinks and have a chat and a laugh

There was a guy who rolled up with two girls and one was very attractive

He instantly could’ve met the owner and I was explaining the concepts to him so he got to meet our group too

It’s extremely easy to meet people when you have no motives and are outcome independent

Bringing women will always raise your confidence

In order to meet these women I highly suggest going to these venues where the “right” people frequent and you can meet the women there

Your first night may be slow but it’s a snowball effect

Over time you can meet a ton of people going to the same places week after week

It’s just like the gym

You build muscle slowly but can see results in a few months

There have been plenty of times where I got results in the very first night which can look like meeting the owner and some girls or even pulling if you have logistics

If you are a high vibe person - people will be drawn to that more

I must have had the most fun in that place and that helps a ton

You can always pump your own state as well as have the environment do it for you

Keep taking to people and get in a nice flow state

Take a break a go outside for a bit if you need to

Come back in and sit down

Learn to just have fun and forget trying to get all your results in one night

You gotta learn to enjoy the process much more

This makes it fun for years on end without burning out from it or becoming a full blown degen

Until next time,

-BTSC

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