Introduction to Social Circle
To begin with let’s first define a social circle. The google definition is “two or more people who interact with one another, share similar characteristics, and collectively have a sense of unity.”
Most people have built in social circles throughout their life that they never choose or leave
Their friends from highschool, college, and coworkers. A lot of people make life long friends during their time in school. However, to think that Lil Jimmy from 7th period in High School is going to help you find what you truly want in the world, is completely nonsensical
Sure Jimmy may be a good friend who wants to play guitar with you sometimes
But how in the world is he going to actually help you meet certain men and women who will further your professional life, personal life, and romantic life ?
He’s not.
You are going to need to meet new people
A lot of these people are going to be conditional friends which is completely fine. Say you join a yoga class. You may meet people in their who are fun to be around but are only friends with you because you both share a mutual interest
You wouldn’t want to date or go into business with this person but you are happy to see them in class
Many many people I know still hold onto their high school friends where they go to the local open air bar and order a bucket-o-beer and watch the game while reminiscing about their days in school
If you think this is the way to further you adult social and professional life, then you need a complete reality check
Not only will these guys hold you back from the litany of other things you can be doing in your free time - they will hit on anything that moves either scaring all the girls off or cockblocking you
Also what happens when you move to a new city? You have no skills to meet new people because you have been relying on the same old ones over and over again
It’s not their fault. It’s just time to move on
Everything in life is cyclical. Your friends will change every 2-4 years based on interests, geography, and careers
The system has programmed this into your head. High school is four years. college is four years. Post grad is 4 years. Then you have 4 years until you are in your 30s
Most people waste these years as if they are still in the sandbox making castles
These are the years to get ahead. These are the years to make the most money you can, have as many experiences as you can, and date as many women as you can
You will have the most mental, emotional, and physical energy in these years
To waste them at bars with barflys and troglodytes would be a damn shame
While you could be attending elegant events, conducting your own events, and dating top tier women in your city
If you want more out of life, you have come to the right place
Together we will tackle issues such as adult friendships, getting into VIP and mansion parties, “skipping the line,” hosting photoshoots, modern dating, finding business partners, curating the best instagram possible, as well as finding real friends for life
When I discovered this realm of the world everything seemed to change overnight. Fast high end cars, models and bottles, celebrity treatment, and travelling to exotic places
The right connections are only a message away
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