How to use 'Chain Game' at bars to conglomerate different Social Groups
Combining Social Circles the first night
The scenario is this: You and your buddy decide to go out for the night
Regardless of his game or even yours, you can use what I call ‘Chain Game’ to look like a celebrity for the night
I had an out of body experience with this back at a halloween party in 2018
First I came with all 5 dudes and 1 girl and we couldn’t get in to the most popular bar in town at this point
Told the bouncer fuck it we would just go down the street to a competing bar
He let us in and cut the entire line which was a block long
All night I had my friends who were useless so they were just an audience
I kept approaching people with the method I am about to teach you
When all of a sudden, I could see myself talking to people from a third person perspective.
I was sober this night except for a couple of beers
In fact this experience would not have happened unless I was
I saw myself talking with various people building my state and theirs
I realized the next day this is how I would build a ton of social proof fast in one night from here on out
So here it goes: The method requires you to approach people (duh)
If you are nervous look for people alone who are waiting for the friends to arrive or come back from the bathroom
Listen to them and build rapport
When their friends come back introduce yourself
Now you have what I refer to as your core group who you can go back to at any time
This is where you get to decide how to proceed
Usually I’ll approach girls walking nearby or at other tables then build rapport and say come meet my friends
They usually come and if they don’t bring your new friends to them
Now both groups start chatting
Go find another group
By this point you should have so much confidence in yourself you can approach bigger groups ideally with more women
Position either everyone in the middle of the venue or to the side to make them feel like its a VIP area
If you stay in the middle you can literally talk to every girl who comes by and invite them into YOUR fun that you created
And anyone who questions how everyone knows each other will point to you and you just shrug
Now the group should be 15-20 people and you can talk to all the girls and get their igs
Tease them and say your nervous around girls and can they help you talk to some more
They will of course say your not nervous
Say come anyway and grab one or two and walk around with them on your arms
I’ve done this so many times including in the early PUA days that you get to decide who you want to go home with
Girls will still shit test you
I had this guys brother begging me to bring his sister home ?!?! “I only fuck 6’3 guys”
I was in boots and I said I am over that in boots while totally ignoring her and going after a girl with higher interest to make sure I got to fuck
And even then she wanted got distracted with my older friend red rolls royce who was just hitting it saying its a car. Then she wanted to say by to my best friend and I said trust me, we will see him on the walk home
I pointed to the building I lived in said let’s go check the view, we saw my buddy of course somehow, he’s always sober and just does the weirdest shit
She was shocked at how he appeared
He quickly left as he knew what was about to happen
I told her to be nice to the concierge, went up, checked on the view for a second and the rest was history
We even met up with my best friend the next day at the same bar
No one really remembered or saw what happened the night before
But I knew which instilled a super core confidence that gives me chills as I write this
To summarize: Always be merging groups. This is so you don’t have to keep talking and they can and it ups your perceived status. You also look like the leader of all the groups when no on even knows you
Use plausible deniability to combat shit tests. “Check out the view” “Let’s grab prosecco from my place” etc
Keep building comfort and rapport, in this situation only break rapport if you actually have enormous status
Otherwise leave a light foot print and the girls know you are discreet and will happily go home with you