How to Throw your own Events

Weekly, Monthly, and Yearly Events

Every week you should be throwing a small event such as a sushi night or Taco Tuesdays

Invite as many people as you know even if 2 people show up

You have had your first successful event

Now here is the interesting part:

After your small event you can take them out to other activities going on such as ladies night or Industry night

This enables you to walk in with people immediately conveying social proof and slight status

However, doing these weekly events can get tedious over time

The point of them is too fomo others via social media with flyers and in essence make them seem a lot more fun than they actually are

It also gets you in groove of going out weekly

As you get more daring and gain experience you can simply walk in by yourself on ladies night and industry night and now everyone knows you

The owners watch very carefully who returns every week and how much they spend or their group spends

I used to throw an event with my best friend and if it was just me and him that was fine

Don’t get discouraged or too attached to these small weekly events as they are only there for you to be able to piggyback onto other events as you become aware of them in your city

As you progress a weekly event will be a waste of time and you want to focus on a bigger monthly event

Now the cool thing about a monthly event could just mean you turned your smaller weekly events into one bigger monthly event since you met more people

It can still be the sushi night, happy hour, tacos or whatever you were doing weekly and have it down more extravagantly

With all the new people you are with ask them about an event like this at their restaurant preferably on an off night

A lot of places will comp your food or drinks simply for bringing people in

The best places fully comp the girls

The best of best places fully comp the entire bill as long as you tip a good amount (Have the males pitch in tip at least $200)

Now your events are really fomoing people on IG making them want to come

Bringing more social proof and preselection for you and more money for the restaurant

Over time this has a massive snowball effect

People think throwing events is hard or expensive

But with the use of value arbitrage above especially by bringing women in, the owners will take note and invite you to all the events they have at other clubs, bars, and restaurants

This segues into the yearly events

You can utilize all your newfound resources to throw a NYE party or July 4th party for example

Or you can piggyback off other events or as I like to do is do both

Same Rules Apply

Say you are throwing a NYE party in someones hi rise

You can have a dinner before or simply provide food

What all these events do is increase your status without you having to do a lot of the work

You simply need to show up and if things aren’t going as planned simply pivot to another venue

It shows that you know the places in your town to go out, you speak the language of industry professionals by tipping and showing up regularly, it increases your status and conveys that you are a leader of groups

Opening doors to events you would never have heard of had you not done any events at all

People will start recognizing you online and in the real world

They will see the abundance in your life of food, drink, women, fun, and high status living

Plenty of good people will want to become a part of your social circle

Vet the good ones, have them provide value of their own

Do this for 6-12 months in your city

And you won’t ever have to throw an event again unless you want too

You will mostly be invited to other events with even more high caliber people or you can simply piggyback off another event anytime you want

Since you should be going out weekly anyway

What not go build a weekly event that can turn into something much bigger and open many more doors for you ?

Only good can come out of it