How to Throw a Party
The main component of a party is the location
If you are in college I highly suggest joining a frat and using the space they have
I was fortunate enough to have both a normal frat house and an apartment style one where the living space of the brothers surrounded the frat house but we didn’t have follow the rules of the other frats because of the apartment space
This left room to have kegs and hard liquor on those big party nights
I never threw a party at my house near the frat and it only happened once when I wasn’t there
I was the brotherhood chair for a year so I did multiple weekly events from movie nights, trike nights, Pitch parties which were brothers only and friends, and I helped out with the big parties as well
This was a huge foundation for what I teach now because my biggest worry was not being able to one up myself so to speak
Many guys after college have no clue how to keep an abundant social life and it’s extremely important especially as you grow into your twenties
Your 30s will change a bit as people sober up, have kids, get married, move away. The events will be less seldom but more special
Anyway, post grad life throwing a party the location is going to matter a lot
You can have it at your place, a friends, and then go out afterwards to a bar, club, or lounge depending on what you want to do
These are the requirements for a successful pregame/party:
Lots of varieties of booze
Don’t worry you will have plenty of leftover booze for the next event
Jell-o-shots, champagne, ice luge, shot- roulette, beer pong are all excellent touches
Get a backdrop so girls can take photos
The better your even the more likely people will come back
The first one should be pretty good as it sets the tone for other parties
People know what you are capable of
With Halloween coming up and NYE I would be planning out both events right now
You can count these towards your yearly events that I suggest to throw
NYE, Halloween, July 4th, and St Paddy’s are 4 great ones to focus on as they are all in different seasons
Next you are going to want to have someone on music duty or at least being attentive to the music in general
Have a playlist ready with current songs and ones from the past
Fog machines and good lighting also go a long way
If you haven’t ever thrown a party it will be overwhelming but it is fun
You have the highest status
Girls all want to meet you because you put in the effort to throw the party
Collect all their IGs
Make sure to post the party to your story and FOMO people who didn’t come
Get a group photo with everyone and showcase that to your IG grid
Stand in the center
You are going to have to be bossy and tell the people where to stand
People need to be told what to do
Also make sure you invite more girls then guys
The guys always seem to come around no matter what
Invite as many girls as possible and tell them to bring their friends
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