How to Meet People in your 30s

A lot of people become set in their ways by the age of 30

They start settling down

They focus more on what matters to them as they found themselves in their 20s

If you are reading this: you realize most people aren’t worth wasting your time on

If you find yourself without as many friends as you did in your 20s because you grew apart, moved, they moved, interests changed.

That’s totally normal and you have nothing to fret

You need to be proactive about meeting people especially male friends

If you keep seeing someone over and over in your apartment building and you guys end up chatting and finding some common ground

I suggest the next time you see this person invite them to workout or grab a drink

Something low key and nearby

They probably are looking for the same exact thing

You can also go out alone without your SO and post up at a hotel bar or a busy restaurant with a bar

It’s very much like cold approach pickup

You need to be outcome independent

The more outcome independent you are the less you get anxiety about talking to people

Do something you enjoy doing