Holiday Benders
A lot of people drink/drug is up during the holidays to cope with being with the family or even being alone
The most heart attacks happens on Christmas Day
People never go into the ER on Thanksgiving but wait until the Day after
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“ More serious note. If you're spending Thanksgiving alone this year and feel bad about it, here's what I suggest. Dress up. Put on a nice suit, or a nice dress if you're a girl. Head to the best restaurant in town that's open and order at the bar. Hotel restaurants usually are open. If you're lonely on the holidays, you might as well be lonely and well fed. Reach out if you're feeling some type of way - I've definitely been there. Don't have the most stable family background myself. Suicides go up during the holidays. Don't make a permanent choice about a temporary problem.”If you feel extra lonely hotels are a fantastic option
Drive over and relax in the lobby
If you are going to drink, take an Uber
Go into the restaurant or bar and shoot the shit with the waiter or bartender
Afterwards call somebody. Anybody.
If you want to stay home and drink/drug that is also fine as long as your intent is I’m doing this because I want to
Not because I am lonely or sad
Try not to live in your head during the holidays
It’s an easy time to get stressed out or depressed
The sun goes down early so try and get as much sun as possible
If your gyms are closed Xmas and New Years
Go outside for a walk and take a shitload of Vitamin D
Getting out in the elements weather its freezing or not always helps
Read a book, watch a movie, do some writing, play some video games
You can also get ahead for the new year
Last year I was starting my business when everyone else was doing Xmas
The holidays for me are hit or miss
This year is better so far and I’m just happy the election is over
My dad passed 3 years ago in July and his birthday was Christmas Day
It can be hard on that day but I go to my mom’s and we recant old stories and walk her dog
Order some food and have a good time
She just went off the London and my brother is in Wisconsin
My Fiancé is coming back today from visiting her family
For Thanksgiving we just ordered Chinese and had a family friend eat with us
My mom is South African and not from here so we don’t really celebrate Thanksgiving
But it was one of the most fun ones yet
I’m usually a grinch on the holidays
But this year I’m not going all out but I’m going to get a real tree
Going to go to my Fiancés Xmas party this upcoming month for her fmaily
I may go out once to visit with my old buddies
You can always reach out to me
I usually plan for the New Year
I’m also taking a road trip Dec 10-12th this year
The place I’m going is quite festive during the holidays and I’m looking forward to it
Whatever you decide to do
Remember, everything is perspective
You can simply enjoy the holidays because others are happy
If you are experiencing fomo
Go create your own fun
Host a game night or hit the town
Be easy on yourself
This was a tough as year for everyone
Hit one goal before the end of the year you have been putting off, no matter how small
Women love the holidays and it’s an excellent time to find a FWB or even a girlfriend
Lots of potential in that department as well as creating a brand or business
I used this guide to do just that
No matter what you do even if it’s grabbing some stocks or crypto for the New Year
It all adds up in the end
Close the year strong, but don’t fester over the past
Should be an excellent end to the year
I hope everyone has a great weekend
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