Define Your Life
Welcome to the define your life action plan. In this article I’m going to guide you through a step by step process to define the exact social life you want from the type of women, relationships, friendships, travel and gaming schedule.
And the end of this workshop together, you’ll be able to design an inspiring and complete vision board for your life.
WOMAN
First we’ll start with defining the type of women you want and what role they will play in your life.
TYPE OF WOMAN
To begin, I want you to define the top 3 physical traits you want in a women, e.g. ethnicity, height, hair color and so on.
Top 3 Physical Traits
Now I want you to define the top 3 personality traits you want in a women, e.g. humor, loyalty, spontaneity and so on.
Top 3 Personality Traits
ACTION STEP
Find 5 girls on instagram that are an example of your ideal type of woman. Screenshot your favorite photo of each girl. We’ll be using this later in our Vision board step.
Roles of Women in your Life
Knowing the type of women you want in your life is the first step. Now we’re going to build on that by defining the different roles women will have in your life.
One night stand | Short term relationship
I want you to first define the ideal girl for short term relationships, such as one night stands. The key is to not be as stringent in screening these girls, as they are not girls you will keep around long term. Rather they are girls that fit perfectly for one night stands and short term relationships.
My preference:
Spontaneous & fun
My physical type
Can have a more promiscuous look
YOUR preference:
Long-term | Girlfriend
Now I want you to define what you want in your long term relationships with women. We consider these to be primaries and girlfriends. Women who you will be dating and investing in long term.
What are the characteristics you want in a long term relationship?
My preference:
Bisexual and open to multiple girls Must be my physical type
Family Orientated
YOUR preference:
Female Friends | Pivots
Now we’re going to establish your ideal female friends. These are girls that can support your weekly, monthly and yearly container events, can introduce girls to you and have a fun and mutually beneficial relationship with you.