Dating apps: Pros and Cons

Dating apps are a highly debated topic on X

There has been a point in time where I would swipe right on the computer and phone without even looking

This gives you insanely high volume while sifting through the duds you match with

The reason I hated looking was because it is a soul sucking experience to just watch someone appear on your phone and you swipe right or left

So for 10 minutes straight I just would swipe right on the computer and phone

This led to way more matches in general and I know it can hurt your “score” or whatever but you should be creating a new profile now and then anyway

Vindictive girls will try to get you banned from IRL experiences or what you say on the app

So if you aren’t getting banned or playing the numbers game you are just wasting your time

Takes 10 minutes to start a new account

Nowadays the apps seem pay to play and I would pay for Bumble only simply because if a girl even talks to you first in general there is high interest

It’s up to you if you want to pay for Hinge or Tinder

That’s one of the biggest downsides to the apps is you really need to pay for at least one

Tinder is pretty bottom of the barrel

I see some people have a decent time on Hinge but the options are limited unless you pay to upgrade which could be worth it

The apps have gotten much more expensive to be on

It is what it is

Also you are going to have to have good quality photos and a good bio

These are much more important than anything else

This gets you in the door and above the rest of the guys on the dating apps

Girls notice photos first then a good bio

You are going to have to try a few different bios out

BowtiedCuda used to have a saying “Will spit in your mouth, respectfully.”

He’s the best I know at bios and texting

Texting is going to be your next big hurdle

Here are some texting openers and ways to move the convo forward:

Intrigue Openers: "Can you keep a secret?"

"Haha yes ?

General opener: “Like the vibe.. Quick question”

" Thanks yes?"

Once they respond ask "Ever been to (insert venue)?"

She will say "No why ?" or "Yes its amazing"

If she says no Say "Heard it's cool we should check it out."

Or if she says yes "Yes it is amazing. We should check it out”

Always ask when they are free

A lot of guys will tell you to pick two days like Thursday or Saturday and have them choose

Women sometimes have important things going on in their life

Simply don't be to available for her

If the day/ time doesn't work for you

Switch it

Don’t leave pussy on the table though because you box them into 2 days out of the 7

I was never good at texting girls

I followed this basic guide and got lots of dates because of it

The apps are a a great place to learn how to text women

Then you should head over to IG and find way more high quality women

The same rules are going to apply except you are going to need a different style photo where you are much further away from the camera

Coreycha or Kurtbenz on IG have styles you can copy

Photos are extremely important and posting to your story 5-10 times a day while memes sprinkled throughout are also very important

BowtiedCuda has an extensive guide on this

The apps are a grea place to practice texting women and have a low level of input

The skills will translate over to IG which is much better in terms of finding women

It is the number 1 “dating app”

A lot of guys say to just delete the apps and meet girls IRL

The future is all online and meeting girls is still fine in person but not to go to the mall and day game

If you are out and about you can always approach but at the end of the day it’s a numbers game

You are better off meeting women at night time where they want to be met

Curate an environment where girls approach you

I talk extensively about this is my product Social Circle Blueprint

Between the apps, IG, and going out you should have no shortage of women

You can than go on dates with the highest quality ones

Make your dating life much simpler

Always remember it’s a numbers game, rejection is good for you, and above all you need to have other interests besides women

Family, Fitness, Friends, and a life mission

This will give you a huge air of abundance

You should be magnetic with people

I have room for 2 more intermediate to advanced guy who wants to take his lifestyle to the next level

It includes :

Telegram messaging and voice messaging 7 days a week

6 weeks of calls, once a week for an hour can be spaced out monthly

I have been building social circles for the last decade

We will fix your instagram, find the venues and events to attend in your city

We will get you more dates every week

We will build your Social Circle

We will find you high status males to network with

We will find you attractive wingwomen who will help you get other girls

We will help you plan exotic trips to other countries with gorgeous women

You will become a celebrity in your own city

Everyone I know who does game this way always gets a threesome, multiple girls to date, or a long term girlfriend

We will get you the lifestyle you want

You will speak with only me on the phone and texting

For a total of $1000 I guarantee you won't find anything that well priced in this niche anywhere else online

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