Dating Apps are a Scam

I have been saying this for the last decade

It is a way to get women into your lead funnel but these are always low quality girls

They are always a bit strange and I always ask myself why are these girls on here

I’ve sat and watched as girls swipe left on quality dudes just to reject them

They use it to funnel their IG and other social media links

Now they have EXORBITANT rates for competing with the top guys

There are 10 dudes to every one girl

Now if you sit and swipe until your hands bleed everyday you will get laid

The quality will not be high but it will at least boost your experience and confidence

Most people are meeting online nowadays with the stats showing at least a quarter of people

If you are going to meet online, use Instagram the worlds largest dating app

Your effort on their will yield much better results as well as meeting new people

I am not going into specifics today but if you want a fool proof guide click here

However, the dating apps can be decent if you are getting no action at all

Just don’t rely on them hard

Swipe right only

If you like Hinge I’m not going to stop you but you get a finite amount of matches simply because you can’t swipe

But instead of paying for the dating apps you can run ads on IG

Pick your city and start running ads to only women between the ages of 18- 35 to your profile

Unless you want to date older I have, they are great to have sex with and they have their shit together

But there isn’t any future in it

Tinder is complete shit and always has been

Swipe right only on that one, don’t even look at the screen

Bumble the girls have to open you which upsets most guys

Again keep swiping right

You can swipe right on your computer as well and it goes way faster

I used to have both my phone out and computer not even looking, just swiping right

It’s just a numbers game as you want to connect with every girl

Make sure you have 6 good picture with you doing some activity, half look at the camera

Make sure your bio is good. For example “Will spit in your mouth - respectfully.”

Coined by

@BowtiedCuda

in the Jungle and as he says this is great for getting you laid

A relationship is not something you should be looking for on the apps

Those happen naturally through repeated exposure online or offline

The benefits of using the apps is you will get good at texting with girls

Then if you meet up, you can work on talking with them

As well as how you should behave on a date

It’s low pressure for you because the girls aren’t going to be supermodels on their

They are still some decent looking girls that you can have fun with

Some people even meet on the apps and get married

It’s just not a good idea because you can do so much better IRL or on IG

Regardless if you are texting them on the apps use the formula below

Here are some texting openers and ways to move the convo forward:

Intrigue Openers: "Can you keep a secret?"

"Haha yes ?

General opener: “Like the vibe.. Quick question”

" Thanks yes?"

Once they respond ask "Ever been to (insert venue)?"

She will say "No why ?" or "Yes its amazing"

If she says no Say "Heard it's cool we should check it out."

Or if she says yes "Yes it is amazing. We should check it out”

Always ask when they are free

A lot of guys will tell you to pick two days like Thursday or Saturday and have them choose

Women sometimes have important things going on in their life

Simply don't be to available for her

If the day/ time doesn't work for you

Switch it

Dont leave pussy on the table though because you box them into 2 days out of the 7

I was never good at texting girls

I followed this basic guide and got lots of dates because of it

The apps are a a great place to learn how to text women

I rarely speak on this topic because very few guys are actually good at this

However, you will need to learn how to text girls for IG

It differs there as you can open them via their story and there are more nuances

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