COVID Broke the Dating Market—But Not For Me

Last night I realized something huge in the dating market

Depressing really

There have been guys flying out girls since Covid all over the place

So here is what happened:

Everyone was locked down

The only person I know getting poon was my best friend

The rest of the people were either watching soyflix or starting a business

All extremes

So the guys with money either hired private jets or there were still some commercial flights as well as paying local girls top dollar to come hang out

Since you couldn’t go anywhere maybe they ordered food or cooked at home

Then what happens is if the guys were still busy working hard— as the top producers always have done

The guys in NYC, Miami, LA were scrambling

They didn’t have time to go vet pussy and everywhere was closed

So they started paying for it

I know older bottle girls who never left the scene who get flown all over the country

They workout and tan in the day

They eat out every night

They get all expenses paid and essentially have a trick or sugar daddy to pay for everything

Overall this isn’t a great thing in the dating game

However, I have been far removed from that scene so I can see a macro lense

The girl next door types are just a prevalent as ever

Forget dating the bottle girls

The young ones eventually stop and become a realtor or nurse

The ones who get sucked in become ghouls and sell their bodies to dudes and on Onlyfans

The bottle girls who are left over get run through by the owners, promoters, and big spenders

In fact, the owners and big spenders from shot buyers to table buyers share this same type of escort girl

They DGAF

Sometimes they run into other girl from the scene

Wanna be IG models

Attractive girls with mommy and daddy issues

These girls are all fine short term

Some come with kids or tramp stamps

They are all hanging out at restaurants or speakeasys because they feel SAFE

How would you feel being 120lbs with a bunch of lumbering oafs around you?

Exactly

So even the girl next door type is hanging out with her friends at home or going to a low attention spot and not playing all those status games

The best way to find any girl is still going to be via instagram

Find these types through local places from museums to pilates studios to restaurants even certain upscale lounges

They will recommend you other girls like that

I’m going through all that right now

I’m talking to 50

Some are bartenders

Some are strippers

Some are just normal down to earth girls

It’s a slow game

Anything worth it is slow

If you want to pull fast

Higher a girl

Just don’t do it out of desperation

Don’t rely on escort came because you will be a cuck

Instead; talk to girls you see in your building

Tonite for example there is a wine and latin bites

Ya the nines and dimes won’t be there

They are always at the pool

Well it’s been raining a lot and only I have been down their for exercise and ankle rehab

75% of those girls are taken

I said a simple “Hi” to one of them

It’s a starting point, befriending them would be my best bet

Showing up daily to the pool because I want to exercise—not to meet women

Same goes for anything else

They are a bonus

My parents met when my mom was giving tennis lessons

They were both married but unhappy in the marriages

So over time about a month with my dad getting lessons 2-3 times a week- he invited her down below the indoor club into this giant mall

They may have just gone to starbucks or some shit

I’ll have to ask if she even remembers

Then about 2-3 months in he invited her to a Mexican Restaurant

She hated Mexican food as she is from South Africa

But she liked him so they could have gone to KFC

She couldn’t even pronouce Jalapeno and said it exactly how I spelled it

She was a breath of fresh air to him

Didn’t want expensive dinners and bags

She was a tom boy

Top 100 in the world tennis player

Not like these other women who dress up for lunch

I have my eyes on this girl at the chiro’s office

I have to go in weekly for my ankle and neck and shoulder soon so I’ll be building even more rapport with her

She swam in college and coached it after

My favorite thing to do is swim

It’s a similar story and she’s very down to earth

Not this club trash

She has no social media of any kind

She is very pretty

And if nothing comes of it

Oh well

I tried

I do know I made her laugh 3 times last time

I know I’m funny but I’m not that funny

My mom is in their every week for her back which has 5 herniated discs

Everyone knows us and we get VIP treatment

Much like the club

Same with my weekly allergy shots

I don’t even have to wait in line if I don’t want to

Sometimes I wait just to go chat with the desk girls who are plump and not my type at all but are sweet

One white girl in the one time did a double take at me

My ex noticed she liked me

But she is married

I’m tall, charming, I walk in with my cane like I own the place

I say what I like

Talk with everyone I can

The girls who switch off giving me shots always have a laugh

They also mostly have Bfs and lean towards the hispanic side

Girls who are in these types of professions are way more down to earth

The club rats are garbage tier now

If I want one of them I’ll simply hire one

I have my eyes on a 15x playmate

I hate that they all get their lips and shit done

I call them bubble girls

They look like shit

But that part of the world loves it

Because it’s all smoke and mirrors

Fake asf people with nothing to lose

I’ll keep flirting with the world

While they chase the demons

Until next time,

-BTSC