Last night I realized something huge in the dating market
Depressing really
There have been guys flying out girls since Covid all over the place
So here is what happened:
Everyone was locked down
The only person I know getting poon was my best friend
The rest of the people were either watching soyflix or starting a business
All extremes
So the guys with money either hired private jets or there were still some commercial flights as well as paying local girls top dollar to come hang out
Since you couldn’t go anywhere maybe they ordered food or cooked at home
Then what happens is if the guys were still busy working hard— as the top producers always have done
The guys in NYC, Miami, LA were scrambling
They didn’t have time to go vet pussy and everywhere was closed
So they started paying for it
I know older bottle girls who never left the scene who get flown all over the country
They workout and tan in the day
They eat out every night
They get all expenses paid and essentially have a trick or sugar daddy to pay for everything
Overall this isn’t a great thing in the dating game
However, I have been far removed from that scene so I can see a macro lense
The girl next door types are just a prevalent as ever
Forget dating the bottle girls
The young ones eventually stop and become a realtor or nurse
The ones who get sucked in become ghouls and sell their bodies to dudes and on Onlyfans
The bottle girls who are left over get run through by the owners, promoters, and big spenders
In fact, the owners and big spenders from shot buyers to table buyers share this same type of escort girl
They DGAF
Sometimes they run into other girl from the scene
Wanna be IG models
Attractive girls with mommy and daddy issues
These girls are all fine short term
Some come with kids or tramp stamps
They are all hanging out at restaurants or speakeasys because they feel SAFE
How would you feel being 120lbs with a bunch of lumbering oafs around you?
Exactly
So even the girl next door type is hanging out with her friends at home or going to a low attention spot and not playing all those status games
The best way to find any girl is still going to be via instagram
Find these types through local places from museums to pilates studios to restaurants even certain upscale lounges
They will recommend you other girls like that
I’m going through all that right now
I’m talking to 50
Some are bartenders
Some are strippers
Some are just normal down to earth girls
It’s a slow game
Anything worth it is slow
If you want to pull fast
Higher a girl
Just don’t do it out of desperation
Don’t rely on escort came because you will be a cuck
Instead; talk to girls you see in your building
Tonite for example there is a wine and latin bites
Ya the nines and dimes won’t be there
They are always at the pool
Well it’s been raining a lot and only I have been down their for exercise and ankle rehab
75% of those girls are taken
I said a simple “Hi” to one of them
It’s a starting point, befriending them would be my best bet
Showing up daily to the pool because I want to exercise—not to meet women
Same goes for anything else
They are a bonus
My parents met when my mom was giving tennis lessons
They were both married but unhappy in the marriages
So over time about a month with my dad getting lessons 2-3 times a week- he invited her down below the indoor club into this giant mall
They may have just gone to starbucks or some shit
I’ll have to ask if she even remembers
Then about 2-3 months in he invited her to a Mexican Restaurant
She hated Mexican food as she is from South Africa
But she liked him so they could have gone to KFC
She couldn’t even pronouce Jalapeno and said it exactly how I spelled it
She was a breath of fresh air to him
Didn’t want expensive dinners and bags
She was a tom boy
Top 100 in the world tennis player
Not like these other women who dress up for lunch
I have my eyes on this girl at the chiro’s office
I have to go in weekly for my ankle and neck and shoulder soon so I’ll be building even more rapport with her
She swam in college and coached it after
My favorite thing to do is swim
It’s a similar story and she’s very down to earth
Not this club trash
She has no social media of any kind
She is very pretty
And if nothing comes of it
Oh well
I tried
I do know I made her laugh 3 times last time
I know I’m funny but I’m not that funny
My mom is in their every week for her back which has 5 herniated discs
Everyone knows us and we get VIP treatment
Much like the club
Same with my weekly allergy shots
I don’t even have to wait in line if I don’t want to
Sometimes I wait just to go chat with the desk girls who are plump and not my type at all but are sweet
One white girl in the one time did a double take at me
My ex noticed she liked me
But she is married
I’m tall, charming, I walk in with my cane like I own the place
I say what I like
Talk with everyone I can
The girls who switch off giving me shots always have a laugh
They also mostly have Bfs and lean towards the hispanic side
Girls who are in these types of professions are way more down to earth
The club rats are garbage tier now
If I want one of them I’ll simply hire one
I have my eyes on a 15x playmate
I hate that they all get their lips and shit done
I call them bubble girls
They look like shit
But that part of the world loves it
Because it’s all smoke and mirrors
Fake asf people with nothing to lose
I’ll keep flirting with the world
While they chase the demons
Until next time,
-BTSC
I noticed this 100% 2020-2022. It's clear now we've run in the same circles. That all being said, I noticed in NYC it is starting to unwind. The key is basically starting from scratch on the scene. The girls who turned 21 last few years were not on those IG open threads from 2020. There is a new crop coming in. Likewise there is a new crop of cool guys who spend on parties. The traditional bottle service clubs in NYC aren't the move - it's about the lounges and West Village bars which may lean more "civilian" but hot civilians. Ultimately the concentration of all those open threads on IG wasn't sustainable over multiple years - plus too those guys are having trouble sending out invites with the new IG anti-spam measures along with them inadvertently inviting out fake AI girl profiles.