Christmas Parties

I’m typing this up because invites to Galas and Black tie events have already gone out

Christmas time is an excellent time to connect with people or reconnect with people you haven’t seen in a while

If you have been reading for a while you should have a host of events starting as soon as today

Lots of new restaurants open up

Lots of parties in hi rises that are invite only

We will not be talking about NYE here as I have an entire article for that

Time to look through social media, email, your social circles, and eventbrite

Ask people if they are attending any holiday parties

Consider throwing a small gathering for new people you have met then go out to they nightlife they work at or own

If you opt to throw a party then make sure to start sending invites ASAP through Instagram. Use a flyer to tell people about it

Invite only girls and one male friend who can also bring tons of girls

The point still is to have way more women then men as now they will compete for you

Think of how the ratios at bars are always more men than women

The point of these private parties is to flip the script and meet new women

The men will come anyway

Consider a dj or having a friend dj the party

Have a fully stocked bar as you should anyway

Have games and specialty drinks

Have a friend bartend as well

If this ends up being a decent gathering you can easily get invited to a NYE Party

Or this can end up being good practice for throwing your own NYE party

Have people bring drinks or snacks

Personally I would host a pregame essentially before going out

You can throw your own full on party but know that people will be in an out

Consider hosting a pregame before an industry or ladies night on a Wednesday or Thursday in your city

You can also throw a pregame before going out on the weekend however consider the venue being much busier and unless you have bottle service then there is not much point

Having a pregame with staff you have met throughout the year can easily get you introductions through key people in the nightlife space

This is one way to meet owners, guy girls, (guy who know lots of girls) promoters, djs, bartenders, VIP hosts, and photographers

This can launch your social circle right into January which is one of the best months to go out all year

Meeting all these industry people works well for meeting women as the nightlife industry’s whole goal is to hire women or get women into their venues so that men come and spend money

Don’t think of any of these people beneath you as you should be talking to waiters and busboys alike

They here a lot and know a lot about what’s going on in your city

Some of these people will become life long friends

Be open minded and be a connector

This alone will give you tons of opportunities to invest in nightlife, bartend, and meet TONS of hot women