Back to the Basics: Rewire your Mindset

Sometimes all of us need to take a step back and go back to the basics.

It’s time to audit your life thus far

If you are just joining welcome and for those who have been here from the start, this is one of the most important things you can do

We get caught up in so many thing especially at the start of the year

You need to go back to the basics so you understand yourself more. I have come up with a list of questions you can ask yourself.

Your family is the cornerstone influence on your social norms and desires during childhood. Understanding the social relationships within your family will shed light on the manner in which your mindset works today. Journal answers to each of these questions below.

• Whose love did you crave more growing up – your mothers or fathers?

• What is your social relationship like with your father?

• What was your social relationship like with your mother?

• What circumstances caused you to be social around your family?

• Who were you most social with in your family?

• Who in your family treated you with the most respect?

• Who in your family did you feel most offended by?

  FRIENDS

  In your teenage years, the influence of your nuclear family wanes in light of personal friendships. During this time so much of our self worth and understanding of social dynamics will come from our friendships and peer groups. Journal answers to each of these questions below.

  • What was the pivotal friendship you had as a child, and what made that bond strong?

  • What was the pivotal friendship you had as teen, and what made that bond strong?

  • Give an example of a friendship in which you felt slighted.

  • Give an example of a friendship that faltered due to your short comings

  • When did you feel included amongst your peers?

• When did you feel ostracized by your peers?

• What was your role amongst your peer group, e.g., the class clown, the leader, the social butterfly?

• What do you look for in a friends now?

• What was your role amongst your peer group, e.g., the class clown, the leader, the social butterfly?

  GAME | SOCIAL LIFE

  Many of our assumptions about women and our initial habits when it comes to relating to women are formed during our high school and college years. Through these next questions we’ll discover the underlying relationships and moments that have the greatest impact on your game.

  • What was your game like in high school, e.g., where you popular or isolated, were you confident or scared to interact with girls, did you take make the first move or were you always hoping it would somehow happen?

  • What was your best “game” moment in high school, e.g., first kiss, first hook up and so on.

  • What was your lowest “game” moment in high school?

  • Armed with your understanding of game now, what factors led to their success, e.g., social proof, pre selection and throwing parties?

  • If you could go back to high school and college what would you have done differently in terms of game?

  • Why are you in game now?

  • What is your ultimate goal?

  • How will you know when you get there?

    LIFESTYLE

    Lifestyle development is a core part of a social circle. But before we can define the lifestyle we want, we have to delve deep into the lifestyle choices we’ve made and most importantly – why we made them. Journal your answers below.

    • Are you living the lifestyle up until now, that you’ve always wanted? If not, what has been missing?

    • What have been the 3 most epic experiences of your life?

    • What was the one place that you loved traveling to the most growing up and why?

    • What is the one place you’ve never been that you want to travel to now and why?

What “superficial possession” did you always want growing up, e.g., a car, house, watch or clothes?

• What are the factors that make an experience “epic” for you, e.g., an amazing location, specific people, women, money, food, and unique activities?

• What element of your social life are you most grateful for now? Why?

  CAREER

  Now we turn our attention to your career. Career choices have major a impact on your social and sex life, yet so many people fail to see that connection. In order to define the relationship you want between your career and social life, we designed these key questions to help craft a synergistic vision for that relationship. Journal your answers below.

  • What are the activities you love doing that cause you to lose track of time?

  • What role does work play in the life and lifestyle that you want?

  • What career related opportunities excite you the most and why?

  • What are you willing to give up to develop the ultimate financial and social lifestyle you want?

  • Does your current career path allow you to interact with the type of women and high status men you want?

  • What potential career tweaks or changes could you make to create a more synergic lifestyle socially and financially?

  ACTION PLAN

  Now we’re going to walk you through setting up your Internal Roadmap.

  I want you to review all the answers and insights that have come up in this process, and list your 3 core social values, i.e, what is it that you value you most in your social life. Is it simply having hot women, access to incredible night life, the friendship of high status males, traveling opportunities? Based off the the self inventory we’ve conducted together I want you to narrow your social values into a top three – and then list them in order of importance

  TOP SOCIAL VALUES

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  Now I want you to review all your answers again, and this time I want you to list the top 3 social values or states that have caused you the most unhappiness, dissatisfaction and frustration. Being crippled by fear, living in scarcity, lacking true friendships, not being able to walk away from poisonous relationships and so on.

MOVING AWAY FROM VALUES

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Now you have purpose and boundaries. Every action you take, whether it’s Instagram reconnaissance, number closing potential female friends or throwing your own container events – it’s all linked to your core values and supported by them. Simultaneously, you’ve set a personal boundary of behaviors and mindsets you are no longer willing to accept in yourself.

Everyday you live according to your values and boundaries you are developing the ultimate lifestyle you’ve always wanted and deserve.